Find friends online not dating
You're so nice, and I don't want to lead you on in any way.
It was getting serious with one of my Tinder matches.
After a witty opener (he, having studied at Oxford, asked if I was British because I somehow looked it) and exchanging our jobs and educational background, we were discussing our favorite Delaware beach destination.
So I filled out my profiles honestly, noting in each I was not looking to date, "only make friends :)." This practice got trickier on more information-intensive apps—I literally responded to Coffee Meets Bagel's "I like it when my date…" query with a "doesn't want to date me. But Laurie Davis, author of and an online dating consultant, later told me that strategy was all wrong: Being direct was the kiss of death.
"If you're looking for friends, I would just not write anything about that until the very end if they ask you a question about it," she said. "On OKCupid, they ask you 'you should message me if…' and I would say something really casual there like, 'You think having a drink would be fun.' Use words like 'fun,' which is an indicator of more for social than anything else." She didn't have a lot of faith in my whole friend-getting scheme, really.
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So if that's an issue, we should probably just call it now."We did; he never responded.
I jumped in swiping myself and found, to my surprise, a lot of guys were cool with my rule.Picking Out Like-Minded People Maintaining Friendships Online Staying Safe Online Finding an Online Community Community Q&A Tired of talking to yourself?Are you stuck at home, or feel shy about going out on your own to meet new people?But I ended up hating them for dating because of their "all or nothing" protocol.The ample matches I'd make would either a) never talk to me or b) always and incessantly talk to me and get upset if I didn't reply as rapidly or enthusiastically."I was serious when I said I'm just looking for friends on my profile.